Are You Living in Pain Without Realizing It? 💡


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This Week in the Connection Codes

Hey Reader,

We get so used to living in pain that sometimes we don’t even recognize it anymore. It becomes our normal—a constant hum in the background of our lives. We convince ourselves that change isn’t possible, that this is just the way it has to be.

But what if that isn’t true? 😮

This week’s episode is all about challenging that belief and opening your mind to what’s possible. 🌟

Phyllis shares a powerful moment from this past year when she realized she’d been living in deep pain without even seeing it. It wasn’t until she had a breaking point... it took something literally breaking 🫣... for her to see she needed a shift.

That lightbulb moment didn’t mean the journey was going to be easy, but once she saw her pain for what it was, she knew she couldn’t keep living with it. She was ready to evolve.

Here’s the truth: you don’t have to live in pain.

So many of us carry limiting beliefs that keep us stuck—believing there’s no way out, no solution, no hope. But those beliefs? They’re holding us back from the life we truly deserve.

This episode is for anyone who feels stuck in pain and needs a spark of inspiration to create change. We dive into what’s driving our pain, why it’s so hard to let go, and how curiosity can help you find creative solutions to evolve. 💡✨

🎧 Click here to listen to this week’s episode on YouTube!

Let this be your lightbulb moment. You deserve more than survival—you deserve connection, joy, and freedom from pain.

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🌟Highlights:

  • 00:00:00 – Shattering the “I Can’t” Mindset
  • 00:01:05 – Cracking the Code to Connection
  • 00:01:36 – Pain as a Silent Companion
  • 00:03:34 – A Life-Changing Family Call
  • 00:04:43 – The Whisper of Help
  • 00:08:18 – When the Pool Collapsed
  • 00:12:30 – A Breath of New Perspective
  • 00:15:49 – The Joyful Weight of Change
  • 00:20:12 – Confronting the Fear of Letting Go
  • 00:24:56 – Untangling Emotions for a Fresh Start
  • 00:30:16 – A Call to Courage

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